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Old 22-10-2020, 04:18 PM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

Sorry to hear that. Been facing same dilemma & issue this year. Can use fingers to count how many time did it. The rejection lead to a frustration in myself and cause an anger. Thats when you start to think of all the negative things. still thinking ways to overcome this
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Old 24-10-2020, 02:12 AM
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Be a caring husband. Follow her to the gynae. Sit in during her consultation. Maybe she is too shy to tell the gynae since most gynae are men. Could be a yeast infection, not a STD. Go for a check too to make sure if it is not NGU. Got fishy smell or any discharge with colour?
No discharge and not smelly to me. What's NGU? Thks
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Old 26-10-2020, 08:26 AM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

I never knew i will be in this thread but here am i. I super regret getting married that's for sure and will never encourage anyone to do it if u haven't.
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Old 26-10-2020, 07:59 PM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

I think when there is a newborn to the family, the whole dynamics and focus changes. It no longer about you and your wife but rather the newborn. Assuming if she takes care of the baby, she will be too tired for anything else after the baby sleeps.

Maybe a staycation or some alone time with (with baby in the care of grandparents) will helps.
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Old 27-10-2020, 09:13 AM
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I never knew i will be in this thread but here am i. I super regret getting married that's for sure and will never encourage anyone to do it if u haven't.

Hi Bro you are too negative ...
It takes 2 hands to clap ...

Yes mostly woman lack of sex drive after giving birth .. but is up to you to make it happen.

If you really love her , these are not so important.

Bring her to holiday every year at twice a year like long trip and then another 2 times short trip with kids.

Unless your wife grows fat which will make us turn impotent if see everyday.
Ask her to join you to go jogging and at the same time can see many Camel toes and tell her that lady figure very good and pressure her to maintain figure.
When they exercise and fit then their sex drive can comes back for some ...

Show her some sexy porn but not to XXX as some are really disgusting which may have negative impact
My personal experience ....
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Old 22-11-2020, 12:49 AM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

this tread with worth for discussion
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Old 22-11-2020, 12:52 AM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

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Saw a couple of threads where the Bros share their sad stories. Thought i will also share mine here, just to get things of my chest.

Am married for 7 years now with 2 kids. No sex since the wife got preggie with our 2nd and my 2nd is now approaching 1year. So, almost 2 years without sex now. In fact, we had sex for a grand total of 7 times in that year leading up to the 2nd pregnancy; she only wanted sex during her most fertile day in order to get pregnant.

Had tried to initiate sex (many many times) but she was always tired. It is ok if she is tired, but she has alot of time surfing Instagram or chasing Korean/China drama. Adds to my misery.

The final straw that broke me was my birthday. I thought that getting birthday hump should be the minimum? Didnt get any; she showered, went to bed and promptly fell asleep. i left the room, opened a bottle of Glenfiddich and stared blankly into space for a good couple of hours.

And before i get bombarded with questions on whether i treat my wife well. Well, i've definitely fulfilled all her material needs. Chanel, Hermes, you name it, she have it. I am also the one that does the housework around the house. Cooking, mopping, laundry chores, are done by me, while she focus on taking care of my kids.

To add insult to injury, i am a corporate hi-flier (money is not a problem for me) and i have had multiple woman hinting or out rightly seducing me to try to climb the corporate ladder. I've rejected them all as i believe in remaining faithful to my wife. I also dont engage in FL/WLs as am scare of the potential diseases that i could pass on to my kids.

The only thing that i look forward to at home now, is playing with my kids. Have completely given up hope that i will ever have sex at home.

Just ranting. Thanks for reading Bros.
Soon you will realise that she is planning on cheating on you.
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Old 22-11-2020, 01:09 AM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

After marriage, sex tends to go on a downwards trend.
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Old 22-11-2020, 05:33 AM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

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I never knew i will be in this thread but here am i. I super regret getting married that's for sure and will never encourage anyone to do it if u haven't.
can elaborate???
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Old 23-11-2020, 10:34 AM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

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Hi Bro you are too negative ...
It takes 2 hands to clap ...

Yes mostly woman lack of sex drive after giving birth .. but is up to you to make it happen.

If you really love her , these are not so important.

Bring her to holiday every year at twice a year like long trip and then another 2 times short trip with kids.

Unless your wife grows fat which will make us turn impotent if see everyday.
Ask her to join you to go jogging and at the same time can see many Camel toes and tell her that lady figure very good and pressure her to maintain figure.
When they exercise and fit then their sex drive can comes back for some ...

Show her some sexy porn but not to XXX as some are really disgusting which may have negative impact
My personal experience ....
Thanks for sharing. I think these are standard advice that a lot of websites recommend. I've tried everything under the sun. I have to say...nothing works. Holiday, porn, gifts, dates, gym for myself....nothing works. We had a big fight. She even said she wasn't interested at all. Like 90% of the time, she wasn't interested in sex at all. I told her long ago that I needed it twice a week. Initially, she tried. Even did a range of 2 days on which she would do it with me. Now, she's so lazy and gave up. She'd rather spend time chatting with her friends on whatsapp. Sometimes, I get so pissed that I told her why don't you go live or sleep with your friends??? FUCK.
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Old 23-11-2020, 01:04 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I think these are standard advice that a lot of websites recommend. I've tried everything under the sun. I have to say...nothing works. Holiday, porn, gifts, dates, gym for myself....nothing works. We had a big fight. She even said she wasn't interested at all. Like 90% of the time, she wasn't interested in sex at all. I told her long ago that I needed it twice a week. Initially, she tried. Even did a range of 2 days on which she would do it with me. Now, she's so lazy and gave up. She'd rather spend time chatting with her friends on whatsapp. Sometimes, I get so pissed that I told her why don't you go live or sleep with your friends??? FUCK.
Bro, totally feel you. Mine too. She rather spend her day e-shopping or chatting with her family. Don't say sex la. Sometimes I want supper, I open up the fridge and want to get an egg to cook instant noodle also don't have.

Find instant noodle, don't have. Find peanuts, don't have. All my cupboards filled with my children's snacks and water bottles. Master bedroom filled with her clothes which I don't know wear for who to see. Cos when we go out now, we hardly hold each other even if it is just the two of us. Cos I got rejected too many times in bed until I am sore. Everytime want to touch her also scare liao.

I tell myself maybe one fine day when she is in the mood, she will come and touch me first. Last time we had sex were 6 years ago. after that, the second child is born and the waiting continues.
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Old 23-11-2020, 03:34 PM
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My advise is jus lead ur own life . Love ur kids . Go out eat buffet but just beware of PI and infections .try not to think of divorcing . If u do at least have a 3-4yrs runway to squirrel money assets away before commencing the divorce. To keep it simple u jus need a pussy to fuck . Go find FL or even a sugar babe come home BAU ..... next day wake up u hero again ....


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Bro, totally feel you. Mine too. She rather spend her day e-shopping or chatting with her family. Don't say sex la. Sometimes I want supper, I open up the fridge and want to get an egg to cook instant noodle also don't have.

Find instant noodle, don't have. Find peanuts, don't have. All my cupboards filled with my children's snacks and water bottles. Master bedroom filled with her clothes which I don't know wear for who to see. Cos when we go out now, we hardly hold each other even if it is just the two of us. Cos I got rejected too many times in bed until I am sore. Everytime want to touch her also scare liao.

I tell myself maybe one fine day when she is in the mood, she will come and touch me first. Last time we had sex were 6 years ago. after that, the second child is born and the waiting continues.
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Old 27-11-2020, 01:18 PM
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As I have said if u love your wife and kids, go for counseling to save the marriage.
maybe some girls are brought traditionally to take care of the kids and make sure they excel in schools and etc.
some women are just not interested in sex... can check their star sign.
maybe should just tell the wifey that bcos of your sex drive you may have one night stands or flings ..just to see her reaction!
it's better to be truthful !
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Old 27-11-2020, 01:58 PM
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Re: Sexless Marriage

TS, What I'm going to say may not be the nicest but I'm just playing the devil's advocate.

Maybe get PI to spotcheck if anything is going on elsewhere. Just to eliminate 1 potential reason why she doesn't want sex anymore.

I'm not accusing anyone of anything. Just helping you to eliminate as many potential reasons that could be.

At the meantime, I guess you can go get massage with extras, no need to do full services, some release you will feel good. Just don't get addicted or kena KC-ed. Remember, they are providing a service which you are paying for. No real love involved.
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Old 27-11-2020, 02:01 PM
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Soon you will realise that she is planning on cheating on you.
How I wish my wife will do that. Then it will make it easy for me to to file for seperation.
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