I think there is a difference between you watching your girl fucked by other guys and you joining in when your girl get fucked by another guy. Personally, I am very turned on by the thought of a 3p but sadly my girl is still not ready.
not ready but ready to be fucked by other guy who is not her boyfriend?
i groom lovers from vanilla to minx. this is how i slowly ramp them up from vanilla to 3p, swing and some even GB.
both ur questions are stated in my writeup.
you have to be very aware of your lover's state during exploratory stage when exposing them to the swinging lifestyle. pulling back means either stopping completely or reverting back to the original arrangement of watcher.
the guy gets too excited, thats what youre there for. call off immediately to protect ur gal.
my ladies trust that i vet ppl who agree to abide by the rules of the game since they are new to the scene. So to answer your last question, Yes ^^
Amazing tips bro, do you have any tips to convince GF to try MFF also?